Sunday, December 25, 2011

Slumber party with Nana

We couldn't leave Texas without a stop at Nana's house.  The kids love to visit Nana and were entertained for hours with their favorite game- Dominoes. 
After a little dessert and a few bubble baths we all climbed into Nana's bed for a slumber party. 


Nightime chatter with my MiMi was always comforting, and I found that same comfort listening to her chatter with her great grandchildren.    Three generations all snuggled in bed...It was a Merry Christmas indeed.

Saturday, December 24, 2011

One day in December

I grew up in the city. But, one weekend a month when I was young, I would travel with my Dad 100 miles to the country to stay with my Grandparents while my Dad tended to his reserve duties. It was a weekend I always looked forward to, and a home where so many wonderful childhood memories still exist. So, one day in December, I picked my Grandma up from the Nursing Home and we traveled back to her home for no reason at all.
Even though the home is no longer occupied and three decades have gone by, the living room still looks like I remember it. I remember watching Saturday morning cartoons on the TV (in the center). I remember the old 8-track player that sat on the end table and played Polka music for hours. I remember sitting quietly in this living room listening to my Grandma talk to her friends in Czech on the telephone. And I remember when that AC wall unit was installed. I don't know how we ever survived the summers without it!
This is my Grandma's kitchen. I remember the old cubbard to the left where she would hide the candy bars, the smell of scrambled eggs and ham as it made its way from the kitchen to the bedroom in the mornings, and where every little item was to help bake cookies. She made GREAT cookies!
These were the sausage barrels. Making sausage was a family affair. We would sit parallel on either sides of the table and work in an assembly line. I was always best at tying off the ends, so it was next to these barrels where I usually sat. When the barrels were full, we carried them to the smke house for the best dry sausage around. In all my years of trying, nothing beats good old butchered, seasoned, grinded, cased, dried in a smoke-house home sausage like we used to make it! Except, of course, when paired with cheese and a Shiner Bock!
Me and my Grandmother spent many days in this kitchen, at this sink, washing eggs we had just picked. My Grandma can tell some funny stories from when I was little and full of questions on where the eggs came from and why they needed to be washed. The stories are so much funnier now, listening to her tell them to her great grandchildren.

The jars. You name it, and it came out of the garden and into these jars. I remember one season helping to pick cucumbers from the garden and getting bit a dozen or so times from a fire ant pile. Needless to say, I didn't go back in the garden. Ants still creep me out.
Oh how I wanted to take these with me. These were the old metal band-aid boxes they had when I was a kid. Only, when the bandaids ran out, we used the tins for all kinds of things...lost buttons, beeds, and crayons are what I remember. They were the best storage boxes for us girls!
And the coke bottles we used to feed a calf or two or three...
My grandparents old ice cream maker. We would pull this out in the summertime, and all sit under the carport to enjoy it. I remember it being so hot, you practically had to inhale it before it would melt. I can still taste the sugar.
The old meat hooks from the hogs still hang in the garage.
And the old meat grinder still shelved among items that haven't been used in years.
While years have passed, and I have grown, the memories never fade. On this trip, I found a new appreciation for my youth and the life my Grandparents lived. It was just me and my Grandmother together walking room to room, talking and laughing recalling fond memories. Some of the stories she would recall I hadn't ever heard. It made me smile just to watch her share them.  Every once in a while, my Dad would join us to look at something we had run across. It was like picking up pictures from an old photo album.

While the distance makes it difficult to visit as much as I would like, spending a few hours with my Grandma on this day, and sharing conversation as grown adults made this one of the best memories.
 
 
 

Friday, December 23, 2011

Not better, just new

I have written before about where I grew up, and how good it feels to witness a liftime of work pay off for someone you love. But, this Christmas was even more special because it was the year we were able to spend together in my parent's new home. This would be a year when me and my kids would be sharing "first" memories together. The first time in the new house, the first time arond the new tree, the first time seeing Rudolph's cousins. Precious memories in the new jacuzzi tub pressing the limit on bubble bath.
Many laughs chasing Uncle Brad around a new floorplan, and wrestling on new carpet in a new room.
Countless games of dominoes at the kitchen table.
Many a mess clearing rocks for the new gate.
Plenty of rides on the tractor.
A memorable visit from Auntie Aubs.
And oodles of snuggles from Mom Mom.
No matter where we are, being surrounded my family truly makes for a great Christmas!










Monday, November 21, 2011

Ka-chow!

You have to know this little guy to know "Ka-chow!"




For the Con-Man, "Ka-chow" = Lightening McQueen!




Tonight, when he took his eye to his toy box, I loaded him up for urgent care in his "Ka-chow" jammies, "Ka-chow" slippers, and with his "Ka-chow" toy car (the woobie was temporarily unlocatable). He was so brave. He didn't even cry. Nor did it phase him that his eye was leaking blood. Instead, he skipped around the urgent care office, and laid still waiting for his "Ka-chow" tracks (steri strips) to be put in place.




"Two tracks!" he said. He can't wait to show all his friends at school tomorrow!

I am so glad we had the Christmas pictures done just hours before!

Monday, November 14, 2011

Liberty and Justice

This past week, we celebrated the brave men and women who dedicate and sacrifice their lives to serve our country.

As such, Katie learned all about the "veterans", and practiced filling in the blanks on the pledge she has been reciting now for two years.


But, on this day...for some reason...it was all about her. She gets her sense of humor from her Father.

Sunday, November 13, 2011

Finding your voice

I remember when we found out we were having a boy. Other Moms warned be it would be different. "You will love your children the same," they would say. "But, your relationship with your son will be different."

While I didn't think it was possible, they were right. I do love my children the same, but my relationships with them are different.

I have told your story before. After eighteen months seeing an Early Intervention Specialist once a week, you still hadn't found "your voice". You were two years behind, and the specialists offered me no options, despite my expressions of concern.

I have always believed God puts people in your life for a reason...be it good or bad. Thankfully, God put a friend in my life who cared enough (and knew enough) to show me I did have options. I needed to see a developmental pediatrician for a medical opinion. Thanks to God, my dear friend, and a few good doctors, we received your medical diagnosis and began our treatment plan.

Since that time six months ago, you have indeed "found your voice". I will never forget when you said "Mama" for the first time, "Love you", or "I can talk". Sure, you may not be able to say your name, but you can spell it! Your words aren't always clear, but you have come leaps and bounds.

We look forward to celebrating your progress again and again! We have so much hope and are so proud of you!

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Tuesday, November 8, 2011

Tombstones

Joe was driving Kate back from horseback this evening...

Kate (pointing out the window): I saw the stones. They are by the church. That's where you are not allowed to go.

Joe (looking out the window): Stones? Oh, the tombstones. Do you know what those are?

Kate: No.

Joe: When a person dies, their body is buried in the ground and marked with a tombstone. Their body stays in the ground and their spirit goes to heaven.

Kate: With their head?

Some things are just worth documenting...

Saturday, November 5, 2011

Weird Science

When the cold air moves in and the kids get restless, we look for something fun to do as a family. This weekend, Joe had a rare Saturday off so we found ourselves heading South to explore the Maryland Science Center in Baltimore. 

 It's entrance sits overlooking the Baltimore Harbor, and even on a bitter cold day, the view from the front steps is spectacular!  Daddy sure is proud of his hometown - how is it he says it, Bal-mor?
 The kids enjoyed learning all about Dinosaurs (shown below sitting in a dinosaur nest)
 and other inticing topics such as the various types of noises humans make (I bet you can guess what their favorite was!)  Obviously, they are very curious at this age!
 Daddy, the weather man, even found his own exhibit to enjoy, and picked up an idea to share for Kate's upcoming science project...Tornadoes!
 Katie learned about physics while laying on a bed of nails...
 and Conor tried out a space suit when learning about gravity. 
 All of our newly acquired knowledge made us hungry, so we continued our adventure along the harbor.
 It was Daddy's idea to introduce Conor to Hooter's.  I swear it is the fried pickles he is giving a thumbs up to in this picture. 

 
 

Saturday, October 29, 2011

Happy Fall

As record breaking as it is, I am thankful for the Halloween weekend...and the snow. It has forced cancellations on our holiday plans, and allowed me to sip on a warm beverage, under a fuzzy blanket, next to the fireplace, while catching up on the fun things I have put aside for way too long. The laundry can wait...today is about crafts, cookies, and the kids.


The seasons have turned. The tights have been dug out, the boots dusted off, and we have embraced all things Fall. What we discovered to be our favorite tradition for Christmas, has now become a family tradition for Fall.



We slung apples



Pet the sheep...cookie and lil darlin.


Took a tractor ride to a pumpkin patch to find pumpkins of our very own.


And watched the kids make the most of hay bails.


Kate took a school field trip to Browns Apple Orchard with her best bud Carsyn


and Conor (Buzz Lightyear) had a Halloween parade.


We gathered with family for the annual carving of pumpkins


And watched for the first time as the kids really embraced the fun of ripping out the guts.
Happy Fall!

Saturday, October 22, 2011

Kinder be Kind

Kindergarten has changed you. You are more independent. More responsible. You are requesting to take baths on your own, saying things like, "I can do it, Mommy" when I try to help, and are forming words with your letters.



It's only been two months, but I have seen the changes. Just a few weeks ago, you requested to rid your costume carousel and get a desk. Given the nature of the request, we obliged.And this week, I took you for your five year old pictures. With just one look, your Daddy said, "I'm dead". I think he can see the changes too!

Monday, September 26, 2011

School Days

Just like when the kids moved into their BIG beds, I put this post off for one month too. We had an earthquake and flooding from a hurricane...yet...this is the memory I will keep.




This year the kids both hit big milestones...Kate entering Kinder and Conor headed to Pre-school.

Since she was 6 months old, Kate has spent her days with Ms. Marci. I took this picture on her last day. It was a Wednesday. So, it was hard to believe that just one day later, she looked like this. In my eyes, it was like she grew up over night.




True to his personality, Conor took the first day of school without fear or reservation. He only had a moment of sadness when he found out he couldn't ride the school bus with his sister.

I couldn't have said it better. "You are my sunshine," Buddy.


It has been an exciting month for them both, and I couldn't be more pleased with how they are embracing their new friends and adventures. So, I have to face the inevitable...time goes forward.

Still...I wish it would slow down a bit...

Wednesday, August 24, 2011

Woobies are hereditary

As a baby, we frequently wrapped our son in his sister's Christening blanket because it was soft, knitted, cool, and didn't seem to bother his sensitive skin the way the other blankets did. Since then, it has remained a necessity. He sleeps with it, travels with it everywhere (although it stays in the car), takes it to daycare, and brings it to dinner. It has been swimming, made smores, flown on an airplane, and dragged through the dirt more times than I can count. It is frayed, has holes, and is no longer a bright shade of white. It's his "woobie".



I have been thinking about how to rid him of it, and even looked to Mr. Mom (1983) for advice.






But, that didn't work.



Then, last weekend, we were cleaning out the basement going through old boxes when we found this. The picture doesn't due it justice. My husband had stored away his favorite old t-shirt in the bottom of a box. It was faded, torn multiple times around the logo on the backside, and was so thin I could have used it for kleenex. Yet, he held it like a new born baby. Better yet, like our son holds his woobie.



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