Saturday, October 31, 2009

For the record

Our dearest children,

I started this blog almost one year ago to aid in capturing all the wonderful, comical (sometimes chaotic) and simply perfect moments in life that I may not one day remember. So, Conor, please let it be recorded here that the Mickey costume was your Dad's idea. I voted for the Duck.

Still, you made one handsome little mouse. I will always remember the way your shorts waddled when you walked, and how your tail stuck out straight from behind. You are truly the only mouse I could ever adore!

Kate, despite the rainy walk around the neighborhood, you and your friends were troopers. I enjoyed watching you run up to each house eager to ask the question, "Trick or Treat?" I hope you always embrace your imagination and good spirit like you do at this age.

Lastly, this like the Mickey costume, was your Daddy's idea, and proof that even Mommy and Daddy could have a little fun. Note: You may need to Google Gilligan's Island.

Wishing you many more Happy Halloweens!


I love you. Mom.

You could call it a tradition

Every year we gather around the kitchen table to mark our creativity upon a few select pumpkins. In true Halloween spirit, we scoop out their guts and roast their unborn. Mwahaahaa...
Our only rule...no stencils. Here is this year's lineup...
Awww...so sweet.

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Arrr, matey!

Spooky!

Is this pumpkin trying to tell me something?

And some honorable mentions from year's past.

Tuesday, October 27, 2009

Signs of the Season


One of the things I love best about the East Coast are the seasons. This one is my favorite! The trees are trying to hold on to what shades of yellow, orange, and red leaves they have left and the air outside is crisp and damp. It's a nice change to the summer heat and a bleak reminder of what lie ahead for old man winter.



The damp, cold weekends lend nicely to indoor dress up parties with best friends.

Children parade through school yards in their fun costumes.

Our little ones share their excitement in a hunt for the perfect pumpkin!



I think it is time for me to enjoy a hot cup of Cocoa. Cheers!

Sunday, October 25, 2009

Mafia among us

So, I decided to tackle the medicine collection in the kitchen cabinet. A chore I had been putting off for months. With three sinus infections in the house within the last two weeks and the Fall season upon us, I decided it was time to throw away the expired medications and take inventory for what we were low on. As I pulled out the trays and started moving things around, a bug flew in from outside and landed on one of the medicine bottles. I screamed like the girl I am, dropped the bottle on the counter in front of the kiddos, grabbed the nearest napkin, and trapped the bug. Got him, I said.


Katie was so intrigued (and perhaps entertained) by what she just saw that she slid off the bar stool and followed me to the bathroom.


Kate: What are you doing, Mama?


Mom: I am going to flush this bug down the toilet, Kate.


Kate: You are?


Mom: Yep. Do you want to say a prayer for him before I do?


Kate (In her best Godfather voice): Say your prayers (pause...), BUG!


While I leaned against the sink to catch myself in laughter, she had done the deed...flush. I have no idea where she got her Mafia chops, but it was enough to cause her Dad and I to lose it in laughter. Not exactly the instruction I had given, but funny, just the same.

Wednesday, October 21, 2009

Baseball makes me smile

"Let me try, Dad! Can I? Can I say the pledge?"

When I was a kid, I lived at the baseball field. My brother played from little league until college, and my Dad coached right along the way. My Mom was always volunteering to organize the team pool parties, order the trophies, and collect the uniforms. So, that left me climbing trees and consuming as many big league chew pouches and suicide filled snow cones as my teeth could handle. I loved the ball park then. I love the ball park now.

Some of my fondest memories involved being in "The box". "The box", as it was labeled by me, was the Field office, usually located above the concession stand. Only the most important people were allowed to go into "The box", and kids were NOT ALLOWED. Except that I was one determined (and perhaps annoying) kid sister who happened to love the game of baseball. I can remember tugging on my Father's shirt many times asking to recite the little league pledge. On the rare occasion that some poor soul would give in, I would climb to my knees of the folding chair that sat behind the tabled microphone in "The box". In front of me lie the scoreboard with all it's flip switches and lights, pads of scorecards, and freshly sharped pencils. I still remember the smell of the infield dust and the must of the wooded room. I remember watching the ballplayers remove their hats as they lined up on the baselines to the left and right of home plate, and would quickly scan the standing spectators for friends and family with whom I could share my excitment following the big event. Some gentleman from behind would usually give the call,"Go ahead, Kid", and I would lean into the long rectanglar button that sat behind the mic...

Repeat after me.
I trust in God. (pause)
I love my country (pause)
and will respect its laws. (pause)
I will play fair (pause)
and strive to win. (pause)
But win or lose (pause)
I will always do my best. (pause)
Play Ball!
I swear the word "pause" was written after every line on the worn out piece of paper taped to the table.

I still remember the smile that graced my face and the joy I felt when releasing the microphone button. So, it was only natural that when we had a son, one of the first songs I sang to him was about this great American sport.

This clip (which I recorded incognito while sitting at the dinner table) is of our daughter. It makes me feel just as much joy as those days in little league. I am still smiling.


Tuesday, October 20, 2009

It's tough being a toddler

7:00am: Good morning! Please come get me!

7:15am: Mommy freshens me up.

7:20am: Breakfast is served!

7:40am: Get dressed

8:00am: Off to Ms Marci's House


8:30am: Mickey's on!
9:30am: My tummy says it's hungry...snack?

9:45am: Let's Play!

11:30am: My tummy says it's hungry, again. Lunch please.

12:30pm: Where's my blankie? This will do...Zzzzzz......

3:30pm: Let's Play! Do you have a snack?

4:30pm: Mommy's here! Time to get my shoes and grab my lunchbox.

4:45pm: Let's play outside!

5:30pm: Dinner bell rings!!

6:15pm: Bath time


7:00pm: Read a book


7:30pm: Sweet dreams....

Wednesday, October 14, 2009

Airing my dirty laundry

You know that saying..."life happens"? Okay, so maybe it was slightly altered...
I didn't realize how much "it" does until I removed myself from control of it for a week. While I was working in Texas, many unfortunate "happenings" took place, including one which our washing machine contributed to. It screamed. Revolted. And then died spewing oil in protest.

My dear Mother-in-law saved the laundry in the way that Mother-in-laws do (she's magical)...a little Oxy clean and some day time air. But...even so...this is what eight days without a washing machine at our house looks like...

And to think this doesn't even include the linens!
So, a couple of hundred dollars, a new transmission (I didn't even know washing machines had transmissions), and one promise for a problem-free year later...and we could finally get back to schedule.

Volunteers anyone?

Sunday, October 11, 2009

No place like Texas- No place like Home

Let me start this entry with an apology. It has been exactly thirteen days since my last post, the longest I have ever gone without documenting our crazy life. In talking with a dear friend this week, she confessed she has gone up to two weeks before...I am so thankful for my friends.
(Note to self...perhaps I'll call her after the new year when my jeans no longer snap!)

Now, the reason for the delay...I have been in TEXAS! Yes, my home state, the state for which it takes two days to pass through whether you are driving North to South or East to West, the state for which the words, "Howdy, Ma'am" are spoken daily, and the state for which men step aside to open your door. Yes, I was in TEXAS (deep breath)...for eight days.

Since a lot can happen in eight days both on the home front in PA and in my professional life, I chose to condense all the highlights into this post. So, here are eight notes for eight days...

1. BIG jewelry, BIG makeup, BIG hotels...Everything is BIG in TEXAS! I arrived last Sunday to DFW, a massive airport which I am sure has its own zip code, and was shuttled off to the Great Wolf Lodge in Grapevine. Have any of you heard of this place? It is an adventure park/hotel for wild families and their cubs. This would have been perfect if I only had the wild creatures with me. My "den" was two-story, had a living room, kitchen, three beds, two baths, and came with my very own lime green wrist band for the indoor water park! From the nightly storytime reading by the lobby fireplace, to the bubble gum body wash, and the kids running through the halls with sparkling wands on a scavenger hunt for adventure...this place was like no other I have ever been to! Check it out..http://www.greatwolf.com/grapevine/waterpark

2. Texans like their trucks. Yes, tis true John Wayne rode off in the sunset on a horse. But, in Texas, I am convinced many a sunset are approached by a Chevy, Ford, or Dodge.

3. Purses=Pocketbooks. I forgot that moving to the East Coast has provided me a whole new vocabulary. I was reminded this week that in Texas, pocketbooks are purses, cement is pronounced seament (not sament), and that the "12th man" is not a reference for a team of angry jurors.

4. I am officially in my thirties. As a staff member of a National Association, I was given the honor of helping "work" the annual convention from Sunday to Thursday. This meant I was at the Convention Center daily as early as 6am, and didn't return home until 10pm every night, due to dinner and happy hours with old collegues and dear friends. With each passing morning, it seemed I needed one more cup of coffee to make it through the day.

5. My family is the best...including the one I married into. Everyone who knows me knows that I am deeply close to my Mimi, and this past weekend, she turned 80. All those who love her, whether they call her Mom, Mimi, sister, or friend, gathered in a small Italian restaurant to celebrate eighty wonderful years. She is so deserving! I will remember that night always!

Meanwhile, back in PA, my husband's family volunteered to spend the week helping Mr Mom with the kiddos, selling jewelry, dance classes, school, broken down clothes washers, and so on. I am such a lucky girl to have them to lean on when the travel gets tough.

6. My brother is one of my dearest friends. Whether he wants to be or not, my brother is one of my best friends. While we are no longer sharing nightly walks and conversation on the beachs of the Pacific Coast, spending a few days with him (and his sweet fiance) felt just like those years in California (except without the tan). I am so proud of the man he has grown to be.

7. Football in Texas is fierce! Aggies or Longhorns? Some fans are as hush hush about the team they support as they are about their political affiliation. And just like politics, others are not.

8. There's no place like home. For years I have called Texas my home, and in many ways, it always will be. But over the last eight days, I was reminded that even though it was nice to be back in the Lone Star state enjoying quiet evenings and long conversations with family and friends...I missed the chaos. I missed the goodnight kisses, the noise of the house in the early morning hours, and someone calling me "Mom".

As I looked out the plane window seat over Baltimore this afternoon, the world looked peaceful, and well...eight days older. The sun was shining over the rippled water like a glassy fingerprint, and the leaves had distinctively turned dark shades of red, orange, and yellow. Pumpkins, hay bails, and scarecrows draped each house in the neighborhood, and the temperature had fallen to the mid-fifties. Katie looked much taller than when I left (I am convinced of it), and Conor had spoken a new word..."water".

Yes, while Texas will always be a part of me, I have never been more happy to come home to Pennsylvania.
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